Parenting theory ko samjhne ke liye human being (insaan ka meaning) samjhte hain.
Definition of Human being in Islam (इस्लाम में इंसान की परिभाषा):
Yaha do shabd hain ‘Islam’ & ‘Insaan’. Sabse pahle Islam ko samjhte hain.
Islam:-
Islam shabd Arabic word “Salema” se liya gaya hai jiska matlab ‘Aman’ (peace- शांति), ‘Pakeejgee’ (Purity- पवित्रता), ‘Farmabardaaree’ (Obedience- आज्ञाकारिता) & Ata-aat (submission- समर्पण) hai.
Islam ki kitab “Quraan” hai aur Paighamber (Prophet- नबी ) Mohammad ﷺ hain. Islam ko pura (complete-पूर्ण ) samjhne ke liye Quraan aur Paighamber (Prophet- नबी ) Mohammad ﷺ ki kahi gayi baaton (sunnat-Hadiths) ko samjhna hota hai.
Human Being:–
Insaniyat (Humanity- इंसानियत) ka akhiri hadaf (Target- लक्ष्य) Allah (God, Almighty) se Mohabbat karna, sabhi insaan aur jaandar (प्राणि) par raham (Mercy- दया ) kar ke Allah (God) ko raazi (Aggree) karna hai. In targets (लक्ष्यों) ko pura karne ke liye Raham (Mercy- दया ), Bakhsish (forgiveness-क्षमा), Qurbaani (sacrifice-त्याग), Ehtaram (respect-सम्मान aur jimmedaari(responsibility-जिम्मेदारी) par zor dete hain.
Islam ke anusar kayenat (Univerce-ब्रह्मांड) ko Allah (God) ne banaya hai aur Insaan ko “Ashraf-ul-makhluqaat” (Highest of all creatures- (सभी प्राणियों में सर्वोच्च) bana kar paida kiya.
parenting Theory: Parent-Child Relationship in Islam (इस्लाम में माता-पिता और बच्चे का रिश्ता):-
Islaam daayitvon (Responcibilities) aur adhikaaron (Rights) ke aadhaar par maata-pita-bachche ke rishte ko niyantrit karata hai. doosare shabdon mein, maata-pita (parent) ke apane bachchon par daayitv aur adhikaar hain, aur bachchon ke bhee apane maata-pita par daayitv aur adhikaar hain.
Children’s Rights and Parents’Responsibilities (बच्चों के अधिकार और माता-पिता की जिम्मेदारियाँ) :
islaam bachchon ko kaee adhikaar deta hai.Quraan mein bachchon ke naam ka 297 baar pratyaksh (direct) aur 342 baar apratyaksh (indirect) roop se ullekh kiya gaya hai. Quraan aur hadees do(two) source hain jo islaam mein bachchon ke adhikaaron ka sanket(ishara/indication) dete hain. islaam ka maanana hai ki bachche maata-pita ke liye Allah kee or se ek upahaar(gift) hain.
Nyaay ke din(day of judgement) ke dauraan, maata-pita ko is trust ke lie jimmedaar thaharaaya jaega. isaliye bachchon ke adhikaaron ko bhee Allah kee or se ek upahaar ke roop mein dekha jaana chaahie. yah adhikaar maata-pita-bachche ke sambandhon ka mool hai aur yah ek anusmaarak hai ki ye daayitv is jeevan mein aur bhavishy(future) mein aaraam aur khushee donon ke lie mahatvapoorn(important) hain.
nateejatan, jab bachchon kee paravarish kee baat aatee hai, to maata-pita sabase pahale aur sabase mahatvapoorn roop se Allah ke prati jimmedaar hote hain.isaliye, bachchon ke adhikaaron mein vah sab kuchh shaamil hai jo bachchon ko unake vaastavik jeevan(real life) ke lie taiyaar karane kee aavashyakata hai.
ye jimmedaariyaan, jinamen padhana aur likhana sikhaana, naitik shiksha (moral education), charitr shiksha (character education), khel aur career ka chunaav (selection) shaamil hain, parivaar kee jimmedaaree hain.
Maa-Baap kee jimmedari hai ki ve apane bachchon ke saath karuna (compassion), komalata (tenderness) aur daya(kindness) ke saath vyavahaar (behave) karen.
Mohammad ﷺ ne kaha, “Allah us Insaan par daya(mercy) nahin karega jo doosaron par daya nahin karata hai.” ek aur hadees mein kaha gaya hai, “jo hamaare bachchon par daya nahin karata aur hamaare badon ka sammaan nahin karata, vah ham me se nahin hai. Mohammad ﷺ kee patnee (wife) Ayesha R.A. ne kaha, “Allah komal (Gentle) aur dayaalu (merciful) hai.”vah har haal mein dayaaluta ko mahatv(importance) dete hain.