Meaning and role of marriage in Islam.
Islaam mein shadee ka matlab aur kirdar
Meaning and role of marriage in Islam.
insaanon ko Allah ne jode mein banaaya hai. Quraan kee bahut si aayaten(sentences) yah bataatee hain.
“Ai insaanon, apane khuda se daro jisane tumhen ek jaan se paida kiya, aur usee se usaka saathee paida kiya aur un donon se bahut se mard aur auraten paida kiye. Hamane tumhen nar aur maada ke jode se paida kiya.
Is Marriage must?
Yes, Shadee(Marrige) har us Mard ya Aurat ke lie zaroori hai jo Shadi-shuda zindagi jeene ke lie jismaani aur aarthik roop se saksham(qabil) hain. Quraan aur sunnat donon mein wafaaadaaron ke lie shaadi kee joradaar siphaarish kee gaee hai. aur allaah kee nishaaniyon mein se yah hai: usane tumhaare lie tumhaare hee beech se jode paida kie, taaki tum unhen pao, aur tumhaare beech mohabbat aur rahmat (daya) qaem kee.
Wo Allah Hi hai jisane tumhen ek aatma se paida kiya aur usi se ek jeevanasaathee banaaya taaki ve ek-doosare se aaraam pa saken.
“Mard (husband) aur Aurat (wife) ek dusre ke libaas hain” .
Ai logon tum mein se jo kunvaare (bachelor) hon, Shadi karo, agar mushkilat me hon aur shadi ki niyat rakhte ho, to Allah apanee karam se tumahri mushkilon ko hal kar dega. ‘Mard’ aur ‘Aurat’ ek-doosare ke rakshak(Muhafiz) hain.. jo koee Allah ke bataye hue rasto se munh modata hai, vah Allah se munh modata hai.
Message of God to youths for marriage!
Ai navjawano, Mard aur Auratein jo koee bhee shadee ka bhaar utha sakata hai, use Shadi karane kee izajat (permission) dee jaanee chaahie. shaadee asal mein aankhon kee santushti hai. jo koee Allah ke lie shadi karata hai vahAllah kee mitrata (dosti) ka adhikaar paa leta hai.
islaam mein shadi kee pahali aham (important) kirdaar Aulad(childs) paane kee hai.
Marriage is the only way to have sexual relations:
islaam ke anusaar, shaadee yaun sambandh(sexual relation) banaane ka ekamaatr tareeka hai. isaka kaary vyabhichaar(sexual harassments) ko rokata hai jo islaam mein nishiddh(mamnua) hai.
Aaj agar ham apne samaj ko dekhte hai to pata chalta hai k ye buraaiyan kitna jyada hai! Aaj bahut se nawjawan lade aur ladkia bina shadi ke sath rahte hain aur ise ‘live in realation’ ka naam de diya gaya hai. Iska samaj me bahut hi nakratmak (negative) asar pad raha hai.
Isliye hame bahut hi siddat se is mudde ko samjhna hoga taki ek behar samaj ki viksit kar sake.
Is mudde par Allah ne hamari rahnumai bhi ki hai jo is tarah hai-
“Ai nawjawano! tum mein se jo koee shadi kar sake, to vah kare. jo log ise nibah(nahan) nahin kar sakate unhen upavaas karana(fasting) chaahie. kyonki yah unake lie paap(gunah) se suraksha(hifazat) ho sakata hai.
Mohammad ﷺ ne kaha ki jab koee mard shaadee karana chaahata hai to jeevan -saathee chunane(selection) mein pahala kadam ek aurat ko usake dhan ya usakee sundarata ya usake badappan ya usake dharm ke aadhaar par chunana (selection)hai. isalie ek dhaarmik mahila ka chunao kare aur use mazbooti se rishta nibhaye. yah vishesh hadees dharm mein vivaah ke mahatv ko darshaatee hai jo pratyek charan ko prabhaavit karatee hai taaki ek vyakti na keval is jeevan ke lie taiyaar ho sake balki usake baad ke jeevan ke lie bhee taiyaar ho sake.